This hit home for me.

I've always had issues with Riley and Xander both in BTVS.  This article helps me see just what did bother me and helps
me see I stayed for the same reasons in my marriage for way too long.  My ex made me think all of our problems were
my fault.  He would be loving and then hateful.  He would cheat and then tell me I was crazy because he would never
cheat on me. He was jealous and mean.  He would mock me and laugh at me.  I was afraid to leave him.  Our families
didn't have anyone that was divorced.  I had no good examples of a healthy relationship either.  So I stayed far too long.

 

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