Sep. 12th, 2018

kuda: (Default)
Heard someone talking about this on TV and it got me to thinking about it.  I think it might be "A Cautionary Tale of Not Living For Others."  Most of my life has been pushed around by other's choices.  My mother ran my life for many years even after I was an adult.  My time and actions would be arranged by her needs.  Once I was married, I seldom had any choice because I was raising my two stepsons and dealing with a not so nice husband when I wasn't dealing with my mother. Then once I got divorced due to him getting another woman pregnant, I finally got a bit of say about where I lived or worked. Yet even then I had to arrange my life around my mother's needs.    When she died, I was sharing my home with my younger stepson. It was only when he got married that I got shoved out of his life.  His new wife wanted me gone so she caused so much stress between us, it ended our relationship. Then I was adrift.  No home and not much money.  I had built my lilfe around others and failed to take care of my own needs and future. So I was homeless and didn't have a support system like I had provided for others all my life. So I guess my autobiography would be a cautionary tale of not giving up yourself to others totally.  

Profile

kuda: (Default)
kuda

April 2023

S M T W T F S
      1
2345678
910111213 1415
16171819202122
23242526272829
30      

Most Popular Tags

Style Credit

Expand Cut Tags

No cut tags
Page generated Aug. 28th, 2025 12:48 pm
Powered by Dreamwidth Studios